Men slut-shaming women is the ugliest reality. But slut-shaming is a sneaky monster. Look closer, and one finds that some of the tallest mantles of slut-shaming women are upheld by their own gender.

They keep pulling themselves down, undermining their abilities, giving the reins of their life to someone else – most of the times a man who can make their decisions for them. What does that do for all of the women right now and in the future?

While women are shamed for having body hair, men who can’t grow a beard are often called names that questions their manliness.

Let’s try and unravel the reasons why you stop yourself from embracing your sex drive

The next time people tell you you’re showing too much skin, remember to tell them this in some form:

Don’t take it lightly if someone is stalking you. It’s not normal, it’s not okay. Stalking is punishable by law and no one has the right to invade your privacy.

If you don’t want to wear a bra, do it without shame. if you DO decide to wear it, buy it and show it off without shame too.

“I sat with my mum at a restaurant in Dubai and I wrote my strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats. And I still have it with me.”