The Basic Information you Should Know When Preparing for First Time Sex

It can make you nervous and at the same it is an exciting moment. First time sex is what most people really want to get right. The reality is, one has to know basic information and prepare for first time sex. Here's a look at a comprehensive preparation plan. Before you get out there and buy products, or start reading up, ask yourself - am I ready? If the answer is yes, then here's what you need to know.

Your Body

• Is your body prepared? Get to know it, understand it, know what pains you and what brings you pleasure. As a woman, definitely knowing your body is a must before you can enjoy your sexual relationships.
• Know what makes you happy and what brings you pleasure
• Don't think about what others will say about your body. Don't be embarrassed.

Awkward?

Having sex can be awkward, confusing for some. It's normal. It happens. Don't blame yourself or feel awkward.

Getting Ready for It

Having a conversation about having sex for the first, eases the process. It's advisable to discuss with your partner how you want to go about it.

Should I buy Sex Toys?

It's not recommended on your first time. Since one is getting around and getting to know the course of things, trying something external or new may add complexity. However there is no clear answer for this. Should you feel like a sex toy, sure by all means try and see what works.

Orgasm - A big deal?

• Have your condoms ready. There is no shame in women carrying condoms. Normalise it. Read more about it here.
• Condoms are important because they prevent (nearly over 90% chances) of sexually transmitted diseases. And they help in avoiding unwanted pregnancies. Lubrication is also important and we have a section below on the same.
• Some women may bleed from vaginal sex for the first time but this is not compulsory. It varies from individuals.
• Get a lubricant to stay comfort while penetrative sex as it helps in easing the process.
• Don't make orgasm the centrepoint of your first sexual moment. While it's important, the first time could be routined given there are so many other things to think about.
• Never fake an orgasm.

Communicate

• A big part of good long satisfying sex life is communication.
• Talk about what you like, what brings pleasure, what leads to pain.

Here are more useful links that you must read.

https://www.shethepeople.tv/sexual-health/tips-for-good-sex-life-millennial/

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