Why Digital Access For Women Is Still Seen As A 'Threat' In India

A decision by a Panchayat in Rajasthan’s Jalore district has triggered debate, not because it talks about mobile usage but because of who it talks about. The rule applies specifically to “daughters-in-law” and “unmarried girls”. Under the decision, women and girls will no longer be allowed to use smartphones with cameras in public or at social gatherings. Instead, they will be limited to basic keypad phones for calls only. 

The restriction applies to weddings, family functions or even casual neighbourhood visits. Unmarried girls who need phones for education may use them at home but cannot carry them outside.

The Panchayat justifies this move as a way to prevent “mobile addiction” and protect children’s eyesight.

But restricting this rule solely to daughters-in-law and girls raises questions about justice, personal choice and the motives behind such decisions.

Why Only Women Always Get The Rules?

Have you ever noticed how these rules always seem to fall on women? From what they wear to where they go, even how they use their phones society somehow thinks it’s okay to control women. Meanwhile men get full freedom with hardly anyone questioning them.

Most of these “rules” come dressed as protection like safety, respect, or good women behaviour. But if that’s really the reason why aren’t boys or men restricted the same way? The truth is it’s less about safety and more about control.

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Women are expected to juggle family, social expectations and responsibilities and still follow extra rules that nobody else follows. Independence and freedom are treated like optional perks for women instead of basic rights everyone should have.

Not A Luxury; A Necessity 

Smartphones aren’t just for scrolling or taking selfies; they’re lifelines. They help women stay in touch with family, manage money, access education and even call for help in emergencies. Taking them away isn’t just about limiting screen time it’s about taking away independence and freedom.

For daughters-in-law and unmarried girls, being forced to use basic keypad phones cuts them off from the world outside their homes and makes them more dependent on others. Rules like these don’t just limit gadgets they limit lives, choices and opportunities.

Ultimately smartphones are tools of independence not threats. Women deserve the freedom to use them make their own choices and stay connected without unnecessary restrictions. True progress comes when access, trust and opportunity are equal for everyone.

By empowering women with technology, we’re not just giving them devices we’re giving them freedom, confidence and a voice in shaping their own lives.

Views expressed by the author are their own.