Replying to a question from a fan on her Instagram story, Trishala Dutt opened up about her previous toxic relationship. She also mentioned that she was treated like shit.
Recently, Trishala Dutt, elder daughter of Sanjay Dutt had put up a ‘Ask away’ on her story on Instagram. One of the questions asked to her was,” Have you ever made mistakes in your relationships? You seem so strong and I feel so weak.”
Answering this question, Trishala took this opportunity to share her past experiences and help other women who may be going through similar situations but do not have the courage to overcome them. Dutt wrote about the time, she was in a toxic relationship and put across facts about her own toxic behaviour of not standing up for herself.
Though known to keep a low profile as compared to other celebrity kids, Trishala Dutt has openly admitted the mistakes that she made in her previous relationships with the intention to help others.
Dutt talks about the way she was treated by her former partner and how she convinced herself to give him one last chance every time. She says, ” He treated me like trash.” While this happened Trishala thought to herself that her partner is going through a lot or it’s probably a bad day. Further convincing herself to set down from the treatment that she deserves.
Without her realising it, Dutt started becoming isolated from friends. Explaining this she says, “He quietly isolated me from my friends without me realising it. Anytime I would go out, I would text him when I got home and he would send me a passive-aggressive text stating, ‘Oh someone got home late’. Insinuating maybe I was doing something I wasn’t supposed to be doing.”
She also shared how she stopped going out to prove that she’s loyal. But his behaviour did not change. Well, to all the women who keep thinking that your actions are responsible for the treatment someone gives you, there’s a lesson up there somewhere.
Trishala Dutt further motivates us by saying, ” Don’t feel weak. I have worked on myself for a lot of years after that and a lot of soul searching for why I stayed in that relationship when I knew better from the beginning. I owned up to my own toxic behaviour which was not standing up for myself and allowing him to treat me the way he did. I chose to accept that and shame on me.”
To all those women living in toxic traits and relationships, this must serve as a wake up to step up for yourselves. You decide your own worth. So don’t let it falter down.
After this relationship of hers, Dutt got into another relationship in 2019 which sadly ended because of the demise of her partner. She wrote in a heartfelt message,” Thank you for loving me, protecting me, and taking care of me. You have made me the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I’m the luckiest girl in the world to have met you & beyond blessed to have been yours. You will live in me for eternity. I love you & I will miss you. Until we meet again. Forever yours, xx your Bella Mia #RIP October 07, 1986 – July 02, 2019.”
Dutt further added a beautiful line, “I love you more today than yesterday but not as much as tomorrow,” suggesting that her love for him would forever keep on growing.
Trishala was raised by her maternal grandparents after her mother’s demise when she was only eight. Trishala is the daughter of Sanjay Dutt and his first late wife Richa Sharma. She currently stays in the US.
Sanjay Dutt was diagnosed with Stage 4 Lung Cancer in August. He took to Instagram and spread the message about Cancer Awareness and staying strong through the process. He has successfully beaten cancer now. Dutt’s wife, Maanayata posted a message on Instagram about staying strong.
Image credits : Trishala Dutt’s Instagram Account