R. Madhavan and Sarita Birje’s love story is the kind that feels scripted for the big screen, a simple thank-you dinner that blossomed into a lifelong partnership. Before becoming a household name in Indian cinema, R. Madhavan had a very different career. In the early 1990s, he was a communication and public speaking coach, helping students build confidence and improve their skills. It was during one of these workshops in Kolhapur in 1991 that he met Sarita, an aspiring air hostess with big dreams.
This Valentine’s, SheThePeople brings you their story of love that has only grown stronger with time.
How a Simple Dinner Turned Into a Lifelong Romance for R. Madhavan & Sarita Birje
From the moment Sarita walked into his class, Madhavan felt an instant connection. As her teacher, he guided her in honing her communication skills, while Sarita worked hard towards achieving her dream of flying high. Once she secured her dream job, Sarita wanted to thank Madhavan for his support and invited him out for dinner. What started as a simple gesture of gratitude soon blossomed into something much deeper.
Their bond grew stronger over time, and the two found themselves falling in love. Madhavan once revealed in an interview, "Sarita was my student, and she asked me out on a date one day. I was a dark man and thought it was an opportunity. Didn't know if I would ever get married, so I grabbed onto the opportunity and married her." They dated for eight years before tying the knot in 1999 in a traditional Tamil wedding attended by close friends and family.
Interestingly, Madhavan’s big break in the film industry came after his marriage. In 2000, he starred in Mani Ratnam’s Alaipayuthey, which made him an overnight sensation. However, this new phase of life also presented challenges. Madhavan, newly married, was reluctant to leave Sarita alone during long outdoor shoots.
To ensure they stayed close, he often took her along to shooting locations. He shared in an interview, "I realized there were many temptations being on outdoor shoots with beautiful women. I took Sarita everywhere I went. This way, she was around when I got introduced to actresses. I was never lonely during my outstation schedule."
Their relationship has always been rooted in trust and companionship. Madhavan credits Sarita as his pillar of support and even entrusted her with managing their finances. In 2005, the couple welcomed their son, Vedant, who has made them proud by winning gold at the Danish Open 2022 swimming championship.
After 26 years of marriage, R. Madhavan and Sarita continue to set relationship goals, proving that love, trust, and mutual respect can stand the test of time, even in the glitzy world of cinema.
Take a look at their story here.
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