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A few years ago, the term "quiet quitting" came to define our collective fatigue. It had nothing to do with laziness or indifference; it was about people, particularly women, saying enough. Enough of the never-ending hustle that leaves little time for life, the blurring of boundaries, and excessive work. We were reclaiming ourselves in silence, not leaving our jobs.
However, something new is now emerging, something more profound and optimistic. From burnout and boundaries to balance and design, we are transitioning from quiet quitting to conscious living.
Why We’re the Burnout Generation
Burnout has emerged as our generation's invisible epidemic, appearing in our online meetings, in boardrooms, and in startups. Nearly 60% of employees are "quiet quitting," or emotionally detached but still present, according to a Gallup 2023 global survey. According to a FICCI-BCG report, 58% of Indian workers report feeling burnt out, which is higher than the global average.
Women are especially affected by this, on account of the "double shift" of work and caregiving, emotional labour, and the pressure to do it all.
It makes sense why we are referred to as the burnout generation. However, burnout is more than just a result of working long hours; it's a result of a deeper disconnect between who we are and what we do.
Neuroscience tells us that when our work aligns with our values, our brain’s reward circuits light up with dopamine and oxytocin, the chemicals of joy and motivation. When that alignment breaks, cortisol takes over, leaving us drained and disengaged.
In that sense, quiet quitting wasn’t rebellion; it was the brain’s way of whispering: something isn’t working.
From Surviving to Designing
So how do we go from reaction to creation, from exhaustion to energy? The answer may lie in something deceptively simple — design.
Stanford professors Bill Burnett and Dave Evans remind us in their book Designing Your Work Life that we don't need to wait for the ideal job; we can redesign the one we already have. They ask, "What would make my life more meaningful right now?" rather than the more overwhelming question, "What should I do with my life?"
Everything changes with that one question.
Working with leaders and professionals has allowed me to witness this change firsthand. People start experimenting when they start to think of their lives as design projects. They experiment with small, doable changes, like setting up "focus mornings," scheduling creative breaks, saying no without guilt, or beginning a side project that brings them joy.
These small prototypes give us back our agency, the sense of control and choice that is essential to wellbeing. They gradually transform work from something that drains us into something that sustains us.
Women Leading the Redesign
In India, women are at the forefront of this transformation. They are redesigning roles rather than merely balancing them. Whether through the development of purpose-driven businesses, flexible work arrangements, or hybrid careers, women are changing the definition of success.
Many women-led organisations in India are amplifying the voices of employees who are choosing alignment over approval, meaning over multitasking. The quiet quitting movement may have started in frustration, but it’s evolving into something far more powerful: a conscious, intentional, deeply human redesign of work and life.
The Future Belongs to the Conscious
The workplace of the future will reward presence as much as productivity. The goal of conscious living is to show up differently, not to take a backseat. It’s about creating space for reflection, purpose, and growth in the middle of all the doing.
Perhaps we should take a moment to consider whether we are designing our lives or merely drifting through. Setting boundaries, saying yes to things that make you happy, and saying no to things that don't — every small act of awareness is a quiet act of design.
Because conscious living isn’t about working less. It’s about living more fully, freely, and by design.
Authored by Navyug Mohnot, Stanford Designing Your Life (DYL) Educator, Coach, and Facilitator | Views expressed by the author are their own.