Why is anyone’s ‘first time’ automatically associated with PIV (Penis In Vagina) sex?

Till about age 23, I had no idea about the female anatomy or how it functions. Like a lot of us, I would confuse the vagina with the vulva. It never occurred to me to explore my body in its bare-est form.

Grateful that I am growing smarter by the day and understand that my body hair doesn’t make me ugly, it’s there for a reason and if I want to grow it or remove it, it’s only MY choice.