Dates To Gifts: Ways To Make Your Long-Distance Valentine Feel Special

Are you celebrating Valentine's Day away from your loved one? Long-distance relationships can be hard but there are many ways you can enjoy the day of love to make the distance less sour. In this article, we share virtual date and gift ideas to make your long-distance Valentine's Day special. 

Wholesome & Romantic Gestures 

Acts of showing you love and care go a long way. 

Love letters: In the digital age, receiving a handwritten letter by mail feels incredibly special. Pen down your feelings for them, remind them they are loved and missed, or simply share an anecdote. Writing to your loved ones can show that they mean a lot to you. 

Write a poem for them: Awaken your inner poet and write a thoughtful poem for your beloved muse. Alternatively, you can also read a romantic poem to them from a book or the internet.

Make them a mixtape/playlist: If you are not expressive with words. say it with music. Create a playlist or mixtape with all their favourite songs or songs that remind you of them. 

Create a supercut of your videos/photos together: Make a montage of your favourite videos or photos of you and your loved one. Elevate it by adding their favourite music or a romantic song in the background.  

Surprise visit: If possible, surprise your loved one on Valentine's Day by travelling to them. You can coordinate with their family or friends where they stay and get their help in planning the perfect surprise.

Virtual Dates

There is an endless list of things you can do on a video call or phone call. Make it extra romantic by decorating your rooms with lights or candles, playing some sweet music in the background, and dressing up in your Valentine's best. Here are some virtual date ideas for you.

Watch party: You can use apps like Teleparty, specially designed for people to stream movies or shows remotely in sync. Some of these apps also have a chat feature or camera+mic feature so you can discuss in real-time.

Cook & Eat together: You can both cook together on a video call and sit down for a virtual dinner date afterwards. Either follow the same recipe together or surprise each other by making your Valentine's favourite dish.

Game night: You can play fun games like 'Would you rather' or 'Truth or dare' to get to know more about your Valentine. Include some freaky or romantic dares or questions to set the mood. You can also play online games together like Ludo, Valorant, or Uno.

Read love notes to each other: You can read love notes, letters, books, poems, or even memes to each other on video call.

Paint and sip: Indulge in a creative activity with your loved one on a video call. You can paint, crochet, or do anything else that brings out your inner artist. Couple this with a glass of your favourite drink to make it a paint+sip night.

Gift Ideas

Handmade stuff: Handmade gifts are one of the best ways to remind your Valentine they are cared for. Make a card, a jar full of love notes, a sketch, handmade/hand-painted ceramics, crocheted/knit stuff, etc. The options are endless.

Scents: Scents are known to evoke memory and attachment, so you can gift your loved one a perfume, scented candles, or incense that would remind them of you or vice versa. Plus, aromatherapy is a wonderful way to relax and deal with the long-distance blues!

Speaking to SheThePeople, Sachi Parekh, founder of the perfume brand Meyander said, "Perfumes make a perfect gift for a long-distance partner or friend because scent has a unique way of transcending distance. A single whiff can instantly transport someone to a time, place, or person, evoking the emotions and memories tied to them. It’s more than just a fragrance—it’s an experience, a reminder of love and connection that lingers long after it’s received. Just like a heartfelt moment leaves a forever impression, so does a scent, wrapping the wearer in the presence of the one who gifted it, no matter how far apart they are."

Intimacy Toys: One of the best ways to spice up Valentine's Day as a long-distance couple is by getting your partner intimacy toys. Some brands also have toys that can be controlled using an app from anywhere in the world. 

Anushka Gupta, co-founder of the brand MyMuse, said, "Valentine’s Day is all about connection, and for long-distance couples, keeping intimacy alive can be both thrilling and challenging. That’s why we always recommend massagers—they bridge the gap and bring you closer, no matter the miles between. This Valentine’s Day, we are making long-distance love feel closer than ever—because passion should have no limits."

Self-care package: Gift your loved ones a hamper full of self-care products like skincare, haircare, makeup, massagers, essential oils, snacks, etc. If you don't know what to add to the package, many brands launch Valentine's Day special hampers with such goodies. Make your Valentine feel pampered and remind them to take care of themselves.

Roshni, Mona, and Naina Mehta, co-founders of the skincare brand Hibiscus Monkey said, "While the world will tell us to do something special for that one person in your life, we believe the most special person in your life is you! It is the single greatest love story and one must invest time, care and resources in nurturing it and loving it. Whether it be taking the time to learn a new sport or ensuring that you moisturize your whole body- every day is an opportunity to show simple acts of love to oneself. This Valentine’s Day all our orders are going in self-love boxes to remind you that you must celebrate YOU first."