Bear It: Why Are Women Told Pain ‘Is A Part Of Life’?

The notion that women are told to bear pain is rooted in societal and historical factors that have influenced attitudes towards women's experiences, particularly related to reproductive health and childbirth.

Why Are Women Told Pain ‘Is A Part Of Life’? 

There are a few reasons why this belief has persisted:

Gender stereotypes and societal expectations

Traditional gender roles and societal expectations have often placed an emphasis on women's ability to endure pain and sacrifice for the well-being of others. These expectations can lead to the perception that women should bear pain without complaint.

Historical perspectives on women's health

Throughout history, women's pain and discomfort have often been disregarded or dismissed. This has been particularly true in the context of reproductive health, where women's experiences and concerns have sometimes been trivialized or misunderstood. As a result, women may have been encouraged to tolerate pain rather than seeking appropriate medical care or interventions.

Cultural and religious beliefs: In some cultures and religions, there may be beliefs or teachings that emphasize endurance or suffering as a virtue. These beliefs can influence attitudes towards pain and women's experiences, leading to the expectation that women should bear pain stoically.

Lack of awareness or understanding

There may be a lack of awareness or understanding about the extent of pain and discomfort that women can experience in various aspects of their reproductive health, including menstruation, pregnancy, and childbirth. This lack of understanding can contribute to the perception that women should simply bear the pain as a normal part of being a woman.

However, it's important to challenge and question these beliefs. Pain is not something that women should be expected to endure. It’s not ‘part of their life’. Every individual, regardless of gender, deserves access to compassionate healthcare that acknowledges and addresses their pain and discomfort. It is essential to promote a healthcare system that respects and validates women's experiences and provides appropriate pain management and support.