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What’s the hottest thing in town right now? It’s not a Labubu or a mini Kelly. It’s not the latest chef’s table or who wore what to brunch. The real marker of taste today is something far rarer: community. Real, in-person connection. Offline plans. Tangible presence. Mahjong is striking a cultural chord not just because it’s nostalgic, but because it offers what so few modern social rituals do: sustained attention.
For those few hours, your phone is down. Your brain is on. The tiles demand focus, memory, and strategy. The table demands presence. And in that presence, something wonderful happens. Strangers become friends. Banter flows. No one’s making small talk, but everyone is speaking the same language of pungs, chows and mahj. It’s tactile, human, and increasingly hard to come by.
On the tables, we find women across ages, including CEOs, creatives, educators, entrepreneurs, lawyers, daughters, and homemakers. They come to play, but they stay for the people.
We’ve seen long-lost friends reconnect in a community group. New moms, empty-nesters and excited grandmothers step out for the first time in a long while. Women in wildly different seasons of life, who might never have met otherwise, now find themselves at the same table, learning the game, swapping stories, and laughing like old friends.
Of course, the old assumptions linger. That it’s a housewife's hobby. That it’s frivolous. But what we see every day is the opposite. The women at our tables are running businesses, leading teams, raising families, creating, building, caring. And yes, they make time to play Mahjong. And they do not need to justify it, because they know the value of choosing joy and connection for themselves. Also, world domination can wait till after the Goulash round.
Mahjong offers something we all crave, whether we admit it or not: uninterrupted time with some mentally engaging play. It’s not about checking out. It’s about checking in, fully and intentionally, and especially with that one player who definitely has your tile.
We’re not reimagining how women gather. We’re bringing it back. Slow. Smart. In-person, and in style. With a few dragons, some casual competition, and maybe a spritz on the side.
Authored by Ishira Kumar, co-founder of The Mahjong Network, a player-forward WhatsApp community built to help you organise Mahjong games.
Views expressed by the author are their own.