The question that women should have the agency to ask in our society ideally is, ‘Do I want to wear a mangalsutra or not?

The show’s message? We have god appointed cupids in the form of matchmakers, but there are harsh realities of Indian marriages and what an individual has to “compromise” in order to settle down.

When a girl who has worked hard through her boards, her pre-entrance exams, her collage is ready to pursue higher education, her parents raise their hands and surrender. We don’t have money to educate you further, they tell her.

Netlfix’s upcoming dating show, Indian Matchmaking, will follow acclaimed matchmaker Sima Taparia on her journey to help her single clients find love.

For us, longevity and prosperity are the only parameters that define the success of a marriage. It doesn’t matter how a marriage lasted for thirty years, or fifty.

My parents’ dissatisfaction with each other slowly unraveled into fights and adultery. Yes, I knew my father was cheating on my mother with someone who was also close to me.

A “good Indian girl” appeases everyone in her line of sight, no matter what the cost. And not saying “no” is a big part of it.

Your friend is being pressurised to get married. How do you support her? By encouraging her to accept her fate? Or by motivating her to speak her mind and take a firm stand?

It is not enough to raise feminist daughters if we still expect women to shed that cloak of progressiveness at the altar of marriage and turn into demure submissive wives.

Are we afraid of baring the faultlines of our own relationships to them?